This Crazy Thing
I first found out about Melissa Villasenor through a Flashdance/dance movie parody video.  No, I wasn’t looking for one, I just came across it.  She struck me as funny, that’s what’s important.  Then I saw her audition video for America’s Got Talent and then began following her tumblr and I have to say she’s one of my favorite up and coming comedians.  I’m super excited to share this and hope you guys enjoy it!

1. What first made you pursue comedy and have your goals changed any since you first began doing it? I realized at the age of 12 that I can do celebrity singing impressions and I shared them with friends and family.  It hit me that I loved making people laugh and thought can I just do this for my life as a job?  So I decided right then and there that I was going to be a comedian.  I am now a comedian performing at home in LA as well as around the country. My goals have changed in many ways, but the goal to stop being a comedian is out of the question.  I love what I do.  The goals of acting and Saturday Night Live may not be thrown away but they are definitely placed on the side shelf at this time.  I realized this year that I want to figure out who I am in my comedy and on stage.  I love sharing my stories to the crowd.  I have been working on a book of funny kid stories that I experienced as well as my one person show which includes my stand-up and original songs.  I have been filming a documentary of my life and everything is great.  I am absolutely seeing where everything I am currently working on is taking me.  It’s exciting.  2. You were known for doing voices, impersonations and singing, but you recently started taking steps away from that in your stand-up sets.  Has it been hard to transition from doing one form of comedy to another or do you feel its been a natural flow?
I have to say that a lot of my new jokes still include wacky voices but they aren’t necessarily focused on celebrities anymore.  They are sometimes people I imitate or characters I make up.  I still include my celebrity impressions but they are placed in my story rather than the joke being about them.  The jokes are about me.  It has been quite a transition because I bombed in plenty of shows by trying out new jokes that do not include voices and I want to fall back on my crutch of doing impressions since they bring an instant laugh.  But now I no longer have to do that.  I have gotten to a point where my jokes are about my life and they actually now do better than the impression jokes. 
3. You do a lot of things outside of the stand-up spectrum ie performing songs at musical open mics, your one woman show, sketch, etc.  How has this influenced you as a performer and do you find yourself compartmentalizing your writing as a result of these different vehicles ie this is a song lyric, not a joke, or this music would work well for your show, but not necessarily for just being performed by itself, etc.
I definitely love that I can work on many different things in my career.  I love that any particular emotion I am feeling I can lean on to a different art.  Sometimes when I am feeling sad I find the nearest open mic and perform and I feel better.  Or sometimes I just don’t want to be near people and I go to my apartment and write a new song and I feel better.  
I love writing music but most of the songs are dark so I do not play my songs at a stand-up comedy show.  I share my songs online at bandcamp.com for the fans that enjoy my music and can relate to it.  
Music plays a big part of my stand-up though too since I do singing in my jokes.  Whether it be my japanese song I wrote or singing Landslide at a coffee shop.  I share and intertwine all that I can do in my stand-up as long as it makes me crack up then it works. 
4.  What are some ways you prepare yourself before taking the stage?
I normally go to the bathroom and (take a good one) haha gross! I look over my set list and say it to myself in my head a few times.  I drink some water and put on some chapstick.  I usually do 4 rounds of chapstick.  I also make sure that my zipper on my jeans is zipped up.  Then I walk on stage with a goofy smile and it’s party time!! 
5. From your tumblr it seems like you’re pretty organized as far as setting schedules and following them. Do you feel like this sort of discipline has helped you grow as a comedian?I love setting and organizing my schedule. For me it brings happiness in my life. I love being busy and I need to keep things that way. Being busy=happiness. I believe it is important for any person regardless what their career is. And yes it helps for me being a comedian because I need to be organized in terms of marking all the days in my calendar that I have shows. I am someone that not only puts events down in my phone calendar but I also have to write it down in my home paper calendar. 
6.  Do you have a quality standard when it comes to what jokes you keep around and what jokes you drop?
The jokes that I keep are the ones that probably have killed in 5 shows in a row and then I will keep using that specific bit and adding more to it.  When it comes to new jokes that I try out, I usually give them about 3 or 4 shows to do well in and if the funny is not there or if I just have no care for it at all I will toss it.  But that doesn’t mean i forget about it, because someday down the road it can strike me as funny and I can make it better and bring it back. Also, the main reason why I would toss a joke is because if it honestly doesn’t crack me up, it is pointless to share and do. Neal Brennan told me, “If I don’t find one of my jokes funny I will not do it on stage. Everything I bring on stage makes me laugh.”  It’a very true.

7.  What’s your writing process like?

 I do my best to set aside time, at least an hour, everyday to work on new jokes. If I am in a writing mood, I make sure to allow myself to let it flow as long as it likes to.  Sometimes I feel uninspired or lazy, but I will at least try! Also what helps writing three journal writing pages every morning (see Artist’s Way). It helps the writers block to never happen. 
Also a big writing inspiration is emotions. If I am experiencing any type of emotion from what I am doing in a moment I will write it down right away. I jot down things in my little notebook at any time. I tell whoever I am with “hold on! Gotta write something down.”  If I am pissed off at a situation I will write down what is going on in that moment and how I feel about it.  I notice that all my jokes only kill on stage when I have strong emotions behind it. So in a way it’s a therapeutic job!! :) 
8. What’s some advice you would give other comics? 
My advice for other comics..

From my experience thus far is:

be yourself, learn to love who you are, be patient it’s a long journey, have fun with what you do! , fail fail fail a lot, bomb in plenty of shows, do your best everyday in terms of writing/ performing, don’t let anyone stop you or get in your way if you want to do this.  Be a nice person even if people are trying to be dicks or upset you. Be the better person- they can be jealous. Don’t worry about other peoples careers and accomplishments- don’t compare- everyone has their own path in life and we are each a different unique person. There is plenty for everyone! 

Argus Hamilton gave me some of the best advice to help me with nerves before shows, he said, “The audience is your best friend. They do not judge you. You can tell your best friend things that you would never tell your girlfriend/boyfriend.”  It helped me tremendously.  So now when I go on stage, I am excited to hang out with my best friend and talk about all the things that are important to me. 

You can see and hear more of Melissa Villasenor in all of the following places: http://www.youtube.com/user/melissav87
http://melissavillasenor.bandcamp.com/
https://twitter.com/melissavpees
and of course http://melissavcomedy.tumblr.com/


I first found out about Melissa Villasenor through a Flashdance/dance movie parody video.  No, I wasn’t looking for one, I just came across it.  She struck me as funny, that’s what’s important.  Then I saw her audition video for America’s Got Talent and then began following her tumblr and I have to say she’s one of my favorite up and coming comedians.  I’m super excited to share this and hope you guys enjoy it!

1. What first made you pursue comedy and have your goals changed any since you first began doing it?

 I realized at the age of 12 that I can do celebrity singing impressions and I shared them with friends and family.  It hit me that I loved making people laugh and thought can I just do this for my life as a job?  So I decided right then and there that I was going to be a comedian.  I am now a comedian performing at home in LA as well as around the country. My goals have changed in many ways, but the goal to stop being a comedian is out of the question.  I love what I do.  The goals of acting and Saturday Night Live may not be thrown away but they are definitely placed on the side shelf at this time.  I realized this year that I want to figure out who I am in my comedy and on stage.  I love sharing my stories to the crowd.  I have been working on a book of funny kid stories that I experienced as well as my one person show which includes my stand-up and original songs.  I have been filming a documentary of my life and everything is great.  I am absolutely seeing where everything I am currently working on is taking me.  It’s exciting. 

2. You were known for doing voices, impersonations and singing, but you recently started taking steps away from that in your stand-up sets.  Has it been hard to transition from doing one form of comedy to another or do you feel its been a natural flow?


I have to say that a lot of my new jokes still include wacky voices but they aren’t necessarily focused on celebrities anymore.  They are sometimes people I imitate or characters I make up.  I still include my celebrity impressions but they are placed in my story rather than the joke being about them.  The jokes are about me.  It has been quite a transition because I bombed in plenty of shows by trying out new jokes that do not include voices and I want to fall back on my crutch of doing impressions since they bring an instant laugh.  But now I no longer have to do that.  I have gotten to a point where my jokes are about my life and they actually now do better than the impression jokes.

3. You do a lot of things outside of the stand-up spectrum ie performing songs at musical open mics, your one woman show, sketch, etc.  How has this influenced you as a performer and do you find yourself compartmentalizing your writing as a result of these different vehicles ie this is a song lyric, not a joke, or this music would work well for your show, but not necessarily for just being performed by itself, etc.


I definitely love that I can work on many different things in my career.  I love that any particular emotion I am feeling I can lean on to a different art.  Sometimes when I am feeling sad I find the nearest open mic and perform and I feel better.  Or sometimes I just don’t want to be near people and I go to my apartment and write a new song and I feel better.  

I love writing music but most of the songs are dark so I do not play my songs at a stand-up comedy show.  I share my songs online at bandcamp.com for the fans that enjoy my music and can relate to it.  

Music plays a big part of my stand-up though too since I do singing in my jokes.  Whether it be my japanese song I wrote or singing Landslide at a coffee shop.  I share and intertwine all that I can do in my stand-up as long as it makes me crack up then it works.

4.  What are some ways you prepare yourself before taking the stage?

I normally go to the bathroom and (take a good one) haha gross! I look over my set list and say it to myself in my head a few times.  I drink some water and put on some chapstick.  I usually do 4 rounds of chapstick.  I also make sure that my zipper on my jeans is zipped up.  Then I walk on stage with a goofy smile and it’s party time!!


5. From your tumblr it seems like you’re pretty organized as far as setting schedules and following them. Do you feel like this sort of discipline has helped you grow as a comedian?

I love setting and organizing my schedule. For me it brings happiness in my life. I love being busy and I need to keep things that way. Being busy=happiness. I believe it is important for any person regardless what their career is. And yes it helps for me being a comedian because I need to be organized in terms of marking all the days in my calendar that I have shows. I am someone that not only puts events down in my phone calendar but I also have to write it down in my home paper calendar. 

6.  Do you have a quality standard when it comes to what jokes you keep around and what jokes you drop?


The jokes that I keep are the ones that probably have killed in 5 shows in a row and then I will keep using that specific bit and adding more to it.  When it comes to new jokes that I try out, I usually give them about 3 or 4 shows to do well in and if the funny is not there or if I just have no care for it at all I will toss it.  But that doesn’t mean i forget about it, because someday down the road it can strike me as funny and I can make it better and bring it back. Also, the main reason why I would toss a joke is because if it honestly doesn’t crack me up, it is pointless to share and do. Neal Brennan told me, “If I don’t find one of my jokes funny I will not do it on stage. Everything I bring on stage makes me laugh.”  It’a very true.
7.  What’s your writing process like?


I do my best to set aside time, at least an hour, everyday to work on new jokes. If I am in a writing mood, I make sure to allow myself to let it flow as long as it likes to.  Sometimes I feel uninspired or lazy, but I will at least try! Also what helps writing three journal writing pages every morning (see Artist’s Way). It helps the writers block to never happen. 

Also a big writing inspiration is emotions. If I am experiencing any type of emotion from what I am doing in a moment I will write it down right away. I jot down things in my little notebook at any time. I tell whoever I am with “hold on! Gotta write something down.”  If I am pissed off at a situation I will write down what is going on in that moment and how I feel about it.  I notice that all my jokes only kill on stage when I have strong emotions behind it. So in a way it’s a therapeutic job!! :) 

8. What’s some advice you would give other comics?
 
My advice for other comics..
From my experience thus far is:
be yourself, learn to love who you are, be patient it’s a long journey, have fun with what you do! , fail fail fail a lot, bomb in plenty of shows, do your best everyday in terms of writing/ performing, don’t let anyone stop you or get in your way if you want to do this.  Be a nice person even if people are trying to be dicks or upset you. Be the better person- they can be jealous. Don’t worry about other peoples careers and accomplishments- don’t compare- everyone has their own path in life and we are each a different unique person. There is plenty for everyone! 
Argus Hamilton gave me some of the best advice to help me with nerves before shows, he said, “The audience is your best friend. They do not judge you. You can tell your best friend things that you would never tell your girlfriend/boyfriend.”  It helped me tremendously.  So now when I go on stage, I am excited to hang out with my best friend and talk about all the things that are important to me. 


You can see and hear more of Melissa Villasenor in all of the following places: http://www.youtube.com/user/melissav87
http://melissavillasenor.bandcamp.com/
https://twitter.com/melissavpees
and of course http://melissavcomedy.tumblr.com/

Yeah, yeah, that is Tyler Greene performing a great set and then proposing to his girlfriend at Meltdown Comics Nerdmelt show.  So many of my favorite words were used in that sentence.  Regardless, I first found out about Tyler through this video after it was shared by some mutual friends in the Greenville comedy scene and thought he would make for a great Q&A subject, so here he is with some great answers to some OK questions.

1. How would you describe the LA comedy scene?

I think the LA comedy scene is an amazing thing. I would put it in the list of great art movements that have happened throughout the ages because you find this organic mixture of people who absolutely love their art getting together and spurring each other on to excellence of the artform. Most of us have decided to be poor in order to pursue this - usually about 10 years of poverty. That’s dedication.

But, to put it simply, I love the LA comedy scene!


2. What’s your writing process like?


I have given a lot of thought to my writing process. As a one-liner comedian, my writing process differs from a lot of other comedians. This is because I write almost completely offstage. Working out material on stage is only to see if a joke is solid. (And, of course, to become more comfortable on stage.)

I then need to try it out in front of at least three audiences to get a read on whether a joke is good or not. If it’s good, I keep it and keep trying it time and time again. If it’s sort of works I have to either rework it and keep trying it, or completely throw it out. If it’s not working, even if I like it, I have to throw it out.

Now, within the one-liner persuasion, there are two ways to go about writing jokes. The first is the process of Demetri Martin, and the second is that of Steven Wright. Demetri Martin’s process is to write a ton of jokes and hope that a handful of them work. Steven Wright’s process is to just go throughout life and at some point your brain is going to give you an idea for a joke. At that point you have to work the form a little bit, but it’s usually pretty well formed. So, you end up writing fewer jokes this way, but a higher percentage of them work. I write more like Steven Wright. I just go throughout the day and occasionally my brain will go here’s a funny and condensed way you think about this thing you’ve interacted with. It’s very natural. The only work is in trying to fit it into proper form so that an audience will understand where the punchline is, and then trying them out on stage. Otherwise, it’s a pretty natural occurrence. The problem with this, is that if you’re not in the right mood, especially if you’re feeling down, you tend to not write jokes for a while. This dry spell can scare you. But, once you go through that ebb and flow enough, you realize that your brain is going to think like this no matter what, so the jokes will come. I’ve tried sitting down and writing jokes like Demetri Martin does, But I usually find that I just end up wasting time because the only thing I produce are mediocre jokes. They tend to not be up to the caliber that I like to keep.

3. Do you have a standard of quality when it comes to the jokes you will or won’t do, regardless of laughs?

I have a very very high standard for my jokes. I only will keep the jokes that I consider my A plus material. I’ll try a lot of jokes out, but I usually keep a very small percentage of the ones that even seem to work well. It’s got to have a special something to it. It is important for me to like telling the joke, of course. But, that’s not the most important factor. For me, the ultimate deciding criteria is if the audience likes it. Now, that’s not to say that I let the audience be my sole criteria. I think if you do that you’ll end up with hack material. My process is that first I have to think it’s funny. Then, I try it out in front of enough audiences to see if it’s pretty much universally funny. If I think it’s funny but the audience doesn’t think it’s funny I ditch the joke. Even if it’s one of my most favorite jokes I’ve ever written. If it’s not funny it’s not funny. For me, I have to think it’s funny and the audience has to think it’s funny a certain number of times. I think you have to have both. For just me to think it’s funny is comedy masturbation. For just them to think it’s funny is soulless hack material.

I have several other principles that I try to follow to give a uniqueness to my material. First, I try to avoid topical altogether. Good one-liners are a rare thing, so I don’t want them to become passé by the time I perfect them. This allows them to have a much longer shelf life. Second, I try to never use a premise that I’ve heard another comic use, let alone their angle on a joke. If anyone else can think of the same things, then I’m not being a unique comic. I’ve had instances where I’ll do a joke and another comic will come up to me after my set and say I have a friend in Portland who has that same joke. At that point, I instantly drop it. Even if I thought of it first or if he might’ve taken the joke from me, I drop it from my material. If it’s not a joke that’s unique to me, I don’t want it.


4. A lot of comedians talk about developing their voice. What’s your definition of ‘voice’ and how did/do you go about developing it as a comedian?

I think voice is best defined as being most like yourself and your unique sense of humor. I think that’s what everyone is ultimately trying to strive for in comedy. And also in life - self-actualization. It’s a hard process and it takes a long time – they usually say 10 years – because no one really knows who they are. New comics have very little idea of what their unique sense of humor is.

I don’t think to have a voice in comedy that you have to talk about your deepest, darkest thoughts. That seems to be a recent trend in comedy – as if you’re not really doing comedy unless you’re talking about the things you should never tell strangers. But, I think that’s just a form of comedy snobbery. There are so many greats in the history of comedy that don’t do that. To do that I think you’re setting up a false standard by which to judge others. But, I do think that being authentic to yourself is crucial to having a good comedy voice. The difference is: spewing everything dark about yourself is a type of honesty, whereas finding what you truly think is funny and sharing that with people is authentic. In fact, you can be brutally honest about your darkest thoughts and actions without having a true voice. Go to any open mic and you can see that. Honestly does not equal voice. Authenticity equals voice. Now don’t get me wrong, I think there are people who are authentically over-sharers on real life, but only some. Somehow that seems to be the gold-standard of “true” comedy recently.


5. How do you keep your set fresh for you when you might be doing the same jokes for the 20th or so time?


I think this is particularly hard for one-liner comics. I say the joke pretty much the same way from its inception until I stop doing it. That means I could be doing that same joke with the same wording, more or less, for years. At that point, the fresh thing for me is that particular audiences reaction to my jokes. That is a benefit of someone who’s more impromptu with their material. They might not know what they’re even going to say before they get on stage. That is admirable to me. But, I also think that being able to write sharply offstage is admirable to them.

One way to keep it fresh for one-liner comics is to do a lot of crowd work. This might seem like a contradiction, but it’s not. You can have well-crafted, static jokes and still be able to be funny off the top of your head. Demetri Martin, to use him again as an example, says he does about 20 minutes of crowd work before he gets into material at his shows. I think each style of writing – meaning, on stage or offstage – has its particular strengths and weaknesses. But, if you’re focused on what the audience is giving you, then each performance is a unique experience.


6. Who are some of your inspirations and how have they helped shape you as a comedian?

My most immediate influences, of course, are the one-liner comedians. I’ve already mentioned Demetri Martin and Steven Wright. But, I also love people like Zack Galafianakis,Emo Phillips, Dan Mintz, and the biggest mack daddy of them all – Mitch Hedberg. I love brilliant joke writing, especially when it’s a little outside of the box. It just does something to my brain. But, I would say my favorite comics to listen to are usually the absurdist guys. People who have won the Andy Kaufman award. Like Brent Weinbach and Neil Hamburger. Those are the ones who are truly unique comics. There’s nothing else quite like those guys. One-liner comics will come and go throughout the ages. They’ve been around forever. I think they’re probably the oldest type of comedians. People like jesters in the courts of kingdoms past. I’m pretty sure those guys had some clever one-liners. But, I don’t think you’ll ever quite get someone like Brent Weinbach again.


7. Do you have an end goal in mind and, if so, how does it affect the way you approach stand up?

This is going to sound bad, but it’s honest. I want to be a comedy legend. No compromise. It affects me in a couple of ways. First, I don’t want to pop too soon. A lot of new comics get bent out of shape that they’re not on good booked shows. I know that feeling because I was there too. You want recognition as a comic and if you aren’t getting it you feel like you’re failing. However, I think it’s much wiser to stay under the radar for a very long time. Years and years and years. Then, when you’re ready and undeniably a good comic, That’s the time to make your presence known. If you’re doing the work in the comedy community, people are going to see you and they are going to talk. My plan is to know I’m ready when People tell me I’m ready. Until then, I am just working out as much material as I can at open mic sent some book shows. I don’t feel like I’m failing by doing that. I think that’s the path to the greatest success you can take.

Second, I am ruthlessly brutal with my material. If I kept all the decent jokes I have ever written, I would have probably close to a headliners set worth. But, because I have a very high standard for myself, I have only about 15 minutes right now. That’s after 3 1/2 years of doing comedy. I think most people at that point have a lot more material. I could be wrong about that. But, I am really confident in the material that I have, which is a good feeling when I get on stage.

Third, I make sure I hit open mics even when I don’t feel like it. I feel like if I want to get better, I’ve got to put the work in. I usually try to string together between three and five mics every time I go out. Sometimes you get a little sick of telling the same jokes, but you’ve got to do it. I should also add that I don’t go out every night. I usually go out a couple of nights a week. But, I still average doing around seven mics per week that way. I do think doing mics every night could easily burn someone out. I tried that for a while and it burned me out. I do think that you have to have a life outside of comedy to insure your longevity. I am married and my wife works for 9 to 5, so I don’t think it would be fair to my wife if I didn’t see her any night of the week. I do want to stay married.


8. What was your first set and how have you changed since then?


Ha ha! Wow! My first time on stage I did this shtick where I had closed body language and refused to look at the audience. I just paced back-and-forth on the stage and talked in a really quiet monotone. It was more like I was doing a character than I was doing myself. I was like Steven Wright on downers. I would say the main way that I changed it is I am now pretty much 100% myself on stage. If you talk to me before my set and then I went onstage I don’t think you’d notice that big of a change in my personality. I think that authenticity has helped me quite a bit. When I used to get off stage, I would get the comment, “Oh you’re nothing like you are on stage,” and that really bothered me. It just took along time to become myself when performing. But, it’s been a vast improvement, I think.

I got to meet Jay Light at the NC Comedy Fest.  He’s a fantastic comedian and he runs a pretty inspiring blog at his website http://www.jaylightcomedy.com/ where he journals his open mic experiences and sheds a little light on what its like balancing a job, a girlfriend and the pursuit of comedy.
1.    What first compelled you to do comedy and why LA?
I started doing comedy because a friend of mine (Parker Searfoss, who was also at the festival with us) decided he wanted to start. He picked up a book called The Comedy Bible one day and it recommended that comedians have a comedy buddy they can work out jokes with. I volunteered. Four and a half years later, I’m still at it. I started performing in North Carolina, but came to LA because it just made sense. Between my film degree and my stand-up, I felt like being out here would provide the most opportunity to both perform and find a day job I enjoyed.

2.       Are there any major differences between a good open mic in LA and an open mic in North Carolina?
Honestly, not really. The biggest difference I’ve found has been between bad open mics. When I was there, the NC scene wasn’t huge, and it had a lot of good people in it. Here in LA, the scene is gigantic, and it’s filled with a lot of people who are either A) doing stand-up to try and break into acting work, B) doing stand-up because they enjoy doing stand-up, or C) purely crazy people who see a microphone as an excuse to talk to someone besides themselves. Groups A and C vastly outnumber group B, and it shows when you hit up enough mics.


3.  You recently started blogging your open mic experiences. Has that helped you and if so, how? 
Blogging about my shows has been a pretty big help because it forces me to analyze my sets and be hard on myself when I need to be. I want to provide my readers with my honest opinion on my performances, and you can’t really do that if you don’t have a good pulse on your own progress as a performer. I feel like it’s also helped me get a better handle on my voice as a writer, both in stand-up and in other writerly pursuits.

      4.  How long do you hang onto a joke before you give up?
Oh man, forever. I’ve got some jokes in my act that I was telling two, three years ago that still work, even if they’ve changed from their original form. As to new material, I usually give it a week or two’s worth of trying to work it out at mics before I scrap it.
 
5.  What’s your writing process like? 
 I used to just write everything out in advance, memorize it, and go from there. Now, since I’ve gotten a lot more comfortable with riffing crowd work, I generally take an idea I’ve jotted down somewhere, try talking about it on stage, then, if it’s worth keeping, write out a more fleshed-out version of the joke for future performances. I try to write with other people when I can, too. Getting other points of view is incredibly helpful for me.

6.  Would you consider crowd work to be a skill or a talent and what’s the evolution of that been like? 
Crowd work is absolutely a skill. Almost all of the best comics I’ve seen perform have the ability to connect with and address the crowd as they see fit. I’m not nearly good enough at crowd work as I’d like to be, and it’s certainly not an easy thing to get better at. For my first few years I was so focused on making sure that my material was decent I never really tried to improve that skill, so it’s taken some getting used to, but I try to talk directly to the crowd (and not use material) at least once per show now, just to improve. It’s just like stand-up in general: if you’re not doing it, really trying, you won’t improve.

7. Do you have an end goal for all of this or do you just take it one day at a time and how does this affect the way you approach stand-up? 
No particular end goal other than to keep up with it for the rest of the year (and maybe further if it strikes me). In terms of how it affects my approach, it’s forcing me to be a lot more present when I’m performing. I can’t exactly check out mentally mid-show and just run through my stuff, that wouldn’t make for good writing OR a good performance. Now that I’m actively critiquing myself and making that available to the public, there is a little internal push to stay focused and in the moment on stage so I can actively adjust my performance as necessary. It’s keeping me from phoning it in. Phoning it in is boring.

I got to meet Jay Light at the NC Comedy Fest.  He’s a fantastic comedian and he runs a pretty inspiring blog at his website http://www.jaylightcomedy.com/ where he journals his open mic experiences and sheds a little light on what its like balancing a job, a girlfriend and the pursuit of comedy.

1.    What first compelled you to do comedy and why LA?

I started doing comedy because a friend of mine (Parker Searfoss, who was also at the festival with us) decided he wanted to start. He picked up a book called The Comedy Bible one day and it recommended that comedians have a comedy buddy they can work out jokes with. I volunteered. Four and a half years later, I’m still at it. I started performing in North Carolina, but came to LA because it just made sense. Between my film degree and my stand-up, I felt like being out here would provide the most opportunity to both perform and find a day job I enjoyed.

2.       Are there any major differences between a good open mic in LA and an open mic in North Carolina?

Honestly, not really. The biggest difference I’ve found has been between bad open mics. When I was there, the NC scene wasn’t huge, and it had a lot of good people in it. Here in LA, the scene is gigantic, and it’s filled with a lot of people who are either A) doing stand-up to try and break into acting work, B) doing stand-up because they enjoy doing stand-up, or C) purely crazy people who see a microphone as an excuse to talk to someone besides themselves. Groups A and C vastly outnumber group B, and it shows when you hit up enough mics.

3.  You recently started blogging your open mic experiences. Has that helped you and if so, how?

Blogging about my shows has been a pretty big help because it forces me to analyze my sets and be hard on myself when I need to be. I want to provide my readers with my honest opinion on my performances, and you can’t really do that if you don’t have a good pulse on your own progress as a performer. I feel like it’s also helped me get a better handle on my voice as a writer, both in stand-up and in other writerly pursuits.

      4.  How long do you hang onto a joke before you give up?

Oh man, forever. I’ve got some jokes in my act that I was telling two, three years ago that still work, even if they’ve changed from their original form. As to new material, I usually give it a week or two’s worth of trying to work it out at mics before I scrap it.

 

5.  What’s your writing process like?

 I used to just write everything out in advance, memorize it, and go from there. Now, since I’ve gotten a lot more comfortable with riffing crowd work, I generally take an idea I’ve jotted down somewhere, try talking about it on stage, then, if it’s worth keeping, write out a more fleshed-out version of the joke for future performances. I try to write with other people when I can, too. Getting other points of view is incredibly helpful for me.

6.  Would you consider crowd work to be a skill or a talent and what’s the evolution of that been like?

Crowd work is absolutely a skill. Almost all of the best comics I’ve seen perform have the ability to connect with and address the crowd as they see fit. I’m not nearly good enough at crowd work as I’d like to be, and it’s certainly not an easy thing to get better at. For my first few years I was so focused on making sure that my material was decent I never really tried to improve that skill, so it’s taken some getting used to, but I try to talk directly to the crowd (and not use material) at least once per show now, just to improve. It’s just like stand-up in general: if you’re not doing it, really trying, you won’t improve.

7. Do you have an end goal for all of this or do you just take it one day at a time and how does this affect the way you approach stand-up?

No particular end goal other than to keep up with it for the rest of the year (and maybe further if it strikes me). In terms of how it affects my approach, it’s forcing me to be a lot more present when I’m performing. I can’t exactly check out mentally mid-show and just run through my stuff, that wouldn’t make for good writing OR a good performance. Now that I’m actively critiquing myself and making that available to the public, there is a little internal push to stay focused and in the moment on stage so I can actively adjust my performance as necessary. It’s keeping me from phoning it in. Phoning it in is boring.


Michelle Maclay
 
Michelle is a local comic working in NC.  She co-producers a HILARIOUS podcast called Small Town Funny with John Sideris.  They talk about performing locally, writing jokes, and about building an act away from traditional comedy meccas.  Michelle loves to host comedy and music shows…interacting with the audience, sharing live comedy with the Triangle area makes her tick and laugh!  Michelle shares insights about topics such as what it is like to not have kids but know how to raise them, all the way to dating your doctor, by appointment only.   
 
1.    How do you think your environment has affected you as a comedian?
 
I feel that it has made me more lazy, if that is possible.  What I mean is that because we are in an area where it is not totally focused on stand up, we are not in a larger or known city for stand up like LA, NYC, Chicago, there are not open mics or shows every night where I can perform, try out new jokes and so on.  I think I would be pushed more to write each day, work on material more often if there was the driver of a show to perform more readily available.  Then again, that is really due to me just not writing – I have to really force myself to write material even if no show and I find that hard to do.  I do have to say it is in a positive way what living in NC has done for me as a comedian or rather my relationship with comedy, me as a comedian.  My idea of what I want to do with it, be, has changed and changed for the better.  I have let go the idea that I want to be a stand up (the traditional way) comedian yet I want to be in the world, to be a part of it.  I have found that with producing local shows, teaching classes (soon to do) and performing at my leisure, at shows I want to perform at, I have a healthy and fun relationship with the comedy – then again goes back to the non-writing so much issue!
 
2.    How would you describe your style and what joke of yours do you think best represents your style?
 
My style, well er ah, ok my style is more silly and side comments.  I am drawn to Ellen DeGeneres – how she tells a story, then has a punch and then makes a side comment about what she just said, or like Jim Gaffigan, how he says stuff under his breath after a joke.  I feel I am like that.  I love hosting a comedy show as I get to interact more with the audience more or it is more expected that I do that than say doing a straight up set in a show.  I like bantering back and forth with the audience.  I like when I have the audience going one way and then out of nowhere I say something that they did not see coming.  I talk about myself and not having kids and why that is – to me it is funny and I never want it to come off as if I am sad – sure at times I was and I suspect in the future I will be sad that I did not have kids, but I hope I am getting to a place where it is funny or amusing and not sad.  I guess the joke that most demonstrates my style would be:
 
I went to the grocery store the other day.  There seemed to be no parking spots open for miles.  Then I saw an open one right up front. But it had a big sign over it that said, “Parent with Child Parking only!” and I thought well shoot, but then I remembered that my period is 5 days late….so I pulled right in….highly likely I could be with child.
 
or
 
the other day I saw a pregnant woman drinking a glass of wine.  and I have to be honest it made me feel a little icky.  Maybe it is me but I think it is sort of gross when two people share one glass. 
 
3.    What’s your favorite part of performing?
 
Interaction with the audience.  I love watching the audiences when others perform and when I am performing.  I like that when I introduce this game I play at my shows and the audience faces are frowning and I can tell they are thinking, “ah man I so do not want to play that, stupid” and then as the game gets going, I watch as the audience picks up that it is fun and then by the end they are totally won over and into it – it is usually the ones with the biggest smirks on their faces at first that are then the most into it by the end.  I love that! I love the live part of it that anything can happen.  Plus like I said earlier, I am pretty lazy and often when hosting do not write specific material, so I love if an audience talks with me and we can go from there.  What I do not enjoy is still feeling like I am going to throw up right before I go on…I don’t but still….
 
4.    How do you keep your sets interesting for you?
 
Do I?  Ha.  One way is to try new set order.  Move jokes around and try them out in with different tones or timing.  Sometimes I do not have a joke yet but I have a topic or something that is of interest and I will just try it out to see what the audience thinks and that helps me write the joke….not fun at the time as since not jokes yet do not work on stage but keeps it lively and fun!  



5. How do you handle a non-responsive audience?
 
I had sort of one this last weekend…it was a paid gig, a birthday party for a 85 year old woman, it was fun and odd all rolled into one.  I usually say something like “ah is this thing on?” then get if get nervous laughter, I say, “Hey you know what really sucks about dying on stage when you do stand up? You don’t!” that usually gets a laugh…if not or if I decide not to go that route, I just keep pushing through and hope for the best. I talk a lot to my audience overall so usually there is at least one or two people responding to me! Ha!  I also try to stay focused that I am going to make some of these people laugh, respond - not everyone laughs out loud at a show.  They are self conscious about laughing if no one else is.  It is an odd thing, but I have seen it a lot at shows, I am into the audience, love watching them, and get a kick at how they react, change and evolve through the life of a show.  Then there have been a few times I have ended my set before my set time was up but do not like to do that cause it messes with the show and I can appreciate the power of that and do not want to do that to another comic who is hosting or producing the show.  I did two shows in NYC when just starting out, when first at it I was very in tune with the audience in if they were laughing or not, talking during my set, or not liking my stuff.  In two shows in a row one week, I had two men (one at each show) just starring at me, arms crossed not looking happy, and certainly not laughing.  Then after each show each of those men came up to me and said, almost the same thing, “Man that was fun, I really enjoyed your stuff”  that was a big learning experience for me…things are not always what they seem in life and very much so in comedy. 
6.  Do you prefer hosting or just performing in a show?
Good question.  The lazy comic in me says YES with vigor!  Hosting, to me, is the lazy non writing comic dream.  I love interacting with the audience and I find you can bring up topics, talk with the audience, and feel that you HAVE to talk with the audience when hosting….but not have to have “material” as well as you can incorporate your existing material and use in a more talkative fashion - it is a different skill and still even though no set material do you need to have, I find I still have to do the work and stretch and make it work.  I also think as the host you are in charge of the entire show, it is bigger than you, than your set and I like that aspect a lot.  I like making it all happen and not just be one part of it, plus as the host you are seen more.  the downside is that the audience may not and often does not get you are still a comic, just hosting…often I get people say, “oh you are hosting this one? oh so you are not doing material?” which is true and yet it is not, to me.  On the other hand I do enjoy from time to time, just showing up, doing a set, then I am out and all I need to worry about for that night.  Wow that was long winded….I guess the conclusion is hosting.  I really want people to leave a show I am hosting and producing to walk away at the end not saying, “wow that was the funniest show I have ever seen” I want them to say and feel, “wow that was the most fun I have had in a long time, ever!”  I mean they do not have to say wow, that is optional, that is just my preferred exclamation.  
7. What’s some advice you would give to other stand-up comics and how did you come by it?
  Have fun, it totally translates on stage, out to your audience.  Even if you are telling a joke that you hate or have told 1000 times, each time has to be new for the audience - they have not heard it before.  It is never the audience’s fault even if they suck….or do not think you are funny, which I guess is the same thing!  And overall, figure out why you are up there, why are you doing this?  You have to be grounded in what you are doing and why doing it for you, otherwise it is even harder than an already very difficult field or craft.  if you are stand up, call yourself.  And oh yeah, all you need is a microphone, the need for appreciation and a hard work ethic and you too can be a comedian.  Well in my case….two out of three ain’t bad!  I learned it from doing it, just getting up there whether an audience or my stuffed animals, from fellow comics, watching them and a few classes…yes I took classes!  Sincerely yours, the lazy comic down south, a little slice of comedy am I. 

Michelle Maclay
 
Michelle is a local comic working in NC.  She co-producers a HILARIOUS podcast called Small Town Funny with John Sideris.  They talk about performing locally, writing jokes, and about building an act away from traditional comedy meccas.  Michelle loves to host comedy and music shows…interacting with the audience, sharing live comedy with the Triangle area makes her tick and laugh!  Michelle shares insights about topics such as what it is like to not have kids but know how to raise them, all the way to dating your doctor, by appointment only.   
 

1.    How do you think your environment has affected you as a comedian?

 

I feel that it has made me more lazy, if that is possible.  What I mean is that because we are in an area where it is not totally focused on stand up, we are not in a larger or known city for stand up like LA, NYC, Chicago, there are not open mics or shows every night where I can perform, try out new jokes and so on.  I think I would be pushed more to write each day, work on material more often if there was the driver of a show to perform more readily available.  Then again, that is really due to me just not writing – I have to really force myself to write material even if no show and I find that hard to do.  I do have to say it is in a positive way what living in NC has done for me as a comedian or rather my relationship with comedy, me as a comedian.  My idea of what I want to do with it, be, has changed and changed for the better.  I have let go the idea that I want to be a stand up (the traditional way) comedian yet I want to be in the world, to be a part of it.  I have found that with producing local shows, teaching classes (soon to do) and performing at my leisure, at shows I want to perform at, I have a healthy and fun relationship with the comedy – then again goes back to the non-writing so much issue!

 

2.    How would you describe your style and what joke of yours do you think best represents your style?

 

My style, well er ah, ok my style is more silly and side comments.  I am drawn to Ellen DeGeneres – how she tells a story, then has a punch and then makes a side comment about what she just said, or like Jim Gaffigan, how he says stuff under his breath after a joke.  I feel I am like that.  I love hosting a comedy show as I get to interact more with the audience more or it is more expected that I do that than say doing a straight up set in a show.  I like bantering back and forth with the audience.  I like when I have the audience going one way and then out of nowhere I say something that they did not see coming.  I talk about myself and not having kids and why that is – to me it is funny and I never want it to come off as if I am sad – sure at times I was and I suspect in the future I will be sad that I did not have kids, but I hope I am getting to a place where it is funny or amusing and not sad.  I guess the joke that most demonstrates my style would be:

 

I went to the grocery store the other day.  There seemed to be no parking spots open for miles.  Then I saw an open one right up front. But it had a big sign over it that said, “Parent with Child Parking only!” and I thought well shoot, but then I remembered that my period is 5 days late….so I pulled right in….highly likely I could be with child.

 

or

 

the other day I saw a pregnant woman drinking a glass of wine.  and I have to be honest it made me feel a little icky.  Maybe it is me but I think it is sort of gross when two people share one glass.

 

3.    What’s your favorite part of performing?

 

Interaction with the audience.  I love watching the audiences when others perform and when I am performing.  I like that when I introduce this game I play at my shows and the audience faces are frowning and I can tell they are thinking, “ah man I so do not want to play that, stupid” and then as the game gets going, I watch as the audience picks up that it is fun and then by the end they are totally won over and into it – it is usually the ones with the biggest smirks on their faces at first that are then the most into it by the end.  I love that! I love the live part of it that anything can happen.  Plus like I said earlier, I am pretty lazy and often when hosting do not write specific material, so I love if an audience talks with me and we can go from there.  What I do not enjoy is still feeling like I am going to throw up right before I go on…I don’t but still….

 

4.    How do you keep your sets interesting for you?

 

Do I?  Ha.  One way is to try new set order.  Move jokes around and try them out in with different tones or timing.  Sometimes I do not have a joke yet but I have a topic or something that is of interest and I will just try it out to see what the audience thinks and that helps me write the joke….not fun at the time as since not jokes yet do not work on stage but keeps it lively and fun! 

5. How do you handle a non-responsive audience?

 

I had sort of one this last weekend…it was a paid gig, a birthday party for a 85 year old woman, it was fun and odd all rolled into one.  I usually say something like “ah is this thing on?” then get if get nervous laughter, I say, “Hey you know what really sucks about dying on stage when you do stand up? You don’t!” that usually gets a laugh…if not or if I decide not to go that route, I just keep pushing through and hope for the best. I talk a lot to my audience overall so usually there is at least one or two people responding to me! Ha!  I also try to stay focused that I am going to make some of these people laugh, respond - not everyone laughs out loud at a show.  They are self conscious about laughing if no one else is.  It is an odd thing, but I have seen it a lot at shows, I am into the audience, love watching them, and get a kick at how they react, change and evolve through the life of a show.  Then there have been a few times I have ended my set before my set time was up but do not like to do that cause it messes with the show and I can appreciate the power of that and do not want to do that to another comic who is hosting or producing the show.  I did two shows in NYC when just starting out, when first at it I was very in tune with the audience in if they were laughing or not, talking during my set, or not liking my stuff.  In two shows in a row one week, I had two men (one at each show) just starring at me, arms crossed not looking happy, and certainly not laughing.  Then after each show each of those men came up to me and said, almost the same thing, “Man that was fun, I really enjoyed your stuff”  that was a big learning experience for me…things are not always what they seem in life and very much so in comedy.

6.  Do you prefer hosting or just performing in a show?

Good question.  The lazy comic in me says YES with vigor!  Hosting, to me, is the lazy non writing comic dream.  I love interacting with the audience and I find you can bring up topics, talk with the audience, and feel that you HAVE to talk with the audience when hosting….but not have to have “material” as well as you can incorporate your existing material and use in a more talkative fashion - it is a different skill and still even though no set material do you need to have, I find I still have to do the work and stretch and make it work.  I also think as the host you are in charge of the entire show, it is bigger than you, than your set and I like that aspect a lot.  I like making it all happen and not just be one part of it, plus as the host you are seen more.  the downside is that the audience may not and often does not get you are still a comic, just hosting…often I get people say, “oh you are hosting this one? oh so you are not doing material?” which is true and yet it is not, to me.  On the other hand I do enjoy from time to time, just showing up, doing a set, then I am out and all I need to worry about for that night.  Wow that was long winded….I guess the conclusion is hosting.  I really want people to leave a show I am hosting and producing to walk away at the end not saying, “wow that was the funniest show I have ever seen” I want them to say and feel, “wow that was the most fun I have had in a long time, ever!”  I mean they do not have to say wow, that is optional, that is just my preferred exclamation. 

7. What’s some advice you would give to other stand-up comics and how did you come by it?


 Have fun, it totally translates on stage, out to your audience.  Even if you are telling a joke that you hate or have told 1000 times, each time has to be new for the audience - they have not heard it before.  It is never the audience’s fault even if they suck….or do not think you are funny, which I guess is the same thing!  And overall, figure out why you are up there, why are you doing this?  You have to be grounded in what you are doing and why doing it for you, otherwise it is even harder than an already very difficult field or craft.  if you are stand up, call yourself.  And oh yeah, all you need is a microphone, the need for appreciation and a hard work ethic and you too can be a comedian.  Well in my case….two out of three ain’t bad!  I learned it from doing it, just getting up there whether an audience or my stuffed animals, from fellow comics, watching them and a few classes…yes I took classes!  Sincerely yours, the lazy comic down south, a little slice of comedy am I. 

                                     Q&A With Mia Jackson

I had the pleasure of opening for Mia Jackson back in August 2012 and absolutely loved her set.  She graciously set aside some time from her busy schedule to answer my questions and I hope you enjoy.

1. What influences your writing and performance?

Everyday life influences how I write and perform. When things happen to me I don’t always react the way most people would, so if I write about something that happened, I like to make sure I have captured my sometimes twisted reactions and takes on it.

2. What was your first show like and how have things progressed since then?

My first show was fun. It was in Athens, GA and I had been stalking the open mic for a couple of weeks secretly thinking that I’d like to get on stage, but I didn’t have the confidence to try it. I eventually did and I told just about everyone I knew to come and because I was so scared, I took a shot before the show. I surprisingly remembered most of the stuff I wanted to talk about and there was a big screen tv on right behind me during my entire set. Since that time…I’ve definitely grown in confidence and I don’t take shots before I get on stage or perform in front of tvs that are still on.

3. What are you most proud of as far as your accomplishments?

I’ve had the opportunity to be in some great contests and festivals. I was one of the final 6 in the 2012 Laughing Skull Festival. I’ve also been in the Asheville Comedy Festival, Women in Comedy Festival in Boston and the World Series of Comedy in Vegas. I’m also proud of writing for the Soul Train Music awards in 09 and 10.

4. How do you deal with things going slower than you’d like them to?

I just have to remind myself to be patient and just think that everything is happening the way it’s supposed to.

5. What’s your writing process like?

I’ll usually note something in my phone or whatever available piece of paper I have and then I’ll try to get out all of my thoughts about it. From there I’ll type out everything I have on the subject and then work with my comedy BFF and we’ll go back and forth trimming the fat on the joke or adding to it.

7. How much time do you put into putting together a set before a show and what’s that process like?

It depends….sometimes I’ll work out a set a few days before other times i’ll work on the order right before I hit the stage. The process usually involves me panicking right up until the show starts.

7. What is your favorite part of performing?

I enjoy when people are having a good time and I like when I exceed their expectations. When I walk out people might have a preconceived notion about what I’m going to talk about and I like throwing them off…that’s always fun for me.

8. What are some of your goals as a comedian?

I’d like to do a late night set….maybe a comedy special or something. Ooh maybe a talk show…yeah that might be it.

To keep up with Mia follower her on twitter @miacomedy

Love Bill Sienkiewicz’s art work and here’s just another reason why.

Love Bill Sienkiewicz’s art work and here’s just another reason why.

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beautiful nautical piece by Tyler Champion  check out more here  http://www.tylerchampionart.com/

beautiful nautical piece by Tyler Champion  check out more here  http://www.tylerchampionart.com/

This piece comes from Meredith McClaren.  It was part of a piece she did on trying to spice up the women of Marvel’s costumes beyond the standard black cat suit.  There’s pieces done for Domino as well as Black Widow here along with explanations as to why she chose those particular accessories.  http://iniquitousfish.blogspot.com/2012/08/a-friend-of-mine-has-site-devoted-to.html

This piece comes from Meredith McClaren.  It was part of a piece she did on trying to spice up the women of Marvel’s costumes beyond the standard black cat suit.  There’s pieces done for Domino as well as Black Widow here along with explanations as to why she chose those particular accessories.  http://iniquitousfish.blogspot.com/2012/08/a-friend-of-mine-has-site-devoted-to.html

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